PRIVATE EYE GAME The person who lives here is organized and neat. She likes to decorate her apartment and make it look pretty. She likes dark furniture and painted walls. She has two cats, bunch of fish, and a lizard. She must like pets; she's probably a good person with a big heart. She likes candles and flowers and abstract paintings. She likes photos hanging on the walls and fridge. Big TV and bunch of movies and books on the shelf. She has a lot of food in the fridge; lots of fruits and veggies, water and cheese. Her freezer is filled with bunch of frozen, Polish food and bread. Fish, shrimp and chicken. Her bed looks "girlie" and comfortable. Her closet is too full. Maybe she holds on to too much and can't let go of things that easily. Lots of shirts, jeans, and sweats. Few pretty dresses. Lots of designer purses and expensive sun glasses, and high heels. There are male clothes in the closet. Her bathroom is painted light pink. There's a picture of two people kissing on the wall; they seem to be in love. There are sea shells and candles on the shelves. Her apartment looks warm and social.
SEEING YOURSELF AS OTHERS SEE YOU My boyfriend wrote: " You are helpful and I can turn to you with all my problems; you somehow make them go away. You smile a lot and laugh with me; you are a happy person. I like when you dress up because you look sexy".
I wrote (about my boyfriend): "I love when you make me laugh and hold me in your arms. You are warm, sweet, and romantic. You make me want to forget the world when I am with you. You understand me and you are my best friend".
20 THINGS I LIKE TO DO:
1. spend time with my boyfriend
2. hang out with family and friends
3. dress up
4. laugh
5. shop
6. sleep
7. travel
8. clean
9. ride a bike
10. swim and sit out by the pool
11. read
12. watch movies
13. ski
14. play volleyball on Sundays
15. cook
16. take pictures
17. draw
18. play games
19. learn
20. be outside
Most of these things are free, done with someone else and are both spiritual and bodily. Few of them cost (travel, shop) and few are done alone (read, clean).
MY IDEAL ENVIRONMENT My ideal environment would be me living in a big, nice house, big enough so my sick father could live with me and never work again. I would support him and take care of him. In my perfect world, I would be married and have kids; two would be perfect- a girl and a boy. We would all live together- my husband, my kids, my father, my cats, lizard, and a dog. The house would have a big back yard so the kids and the dog would have a lot of room to play and run around. I would want to have a job I would really enjoy, but only work it part time so I can spend time with my kids. I would have a loving husband that would always be by my side.
MY IDEAL DAY My ideal day would be a Saturday morning, sleeping in with my boyfriend next to my side. We would be living in California, along the most beautiful beach ever in a beautiful house with an ocean view. We would get up and have breakfast together and drink freshly squeezed juice. We would shower and get ready and go to the beach and hang out and talk. We would sit at the beach all day and when the sun would start to go down he would take my hand and go for a walk along the shore. He would then get on his knees and ask me to marry him and put the most beautiful ring on my finger. We would then head to dinner and meet our closest friends and family to share being engaged with them.
FANTASY ANALYSIS
INDISPENSABLE
WHAT being loved, being alone with someone I love, someone loving me back, diamond ring
WHERE beach
WHO my boyfriend
OPTIONAL BUT DESIRABLE
WHAT freshly squeezed juice
WHERE at dinner
WHO friends
FRILLS
WHAT ocean
WHERE California
WHAT HAPPENS WHEN YOU WALK THROUGH THE ADJUSTED FANTASY DAY Its still my ideal day; I could be in a shower and if my boyfriend would propose to me I would be as happy.
WHAT DO YOU ALREADY HAVE him, his love, and him wanting to marry me. I already live with him, too.
WHAT ELEMENTS OF AN ADJUSTED IDEAL DAY ARE CONSPICUOUSLY ABSENT friends
WHAT STANDS BETWEEN ME AND HAVING MY IDEAL DAY TOMORROW time, finishing school, saving up before I can afford a California beach house
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